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Moms need friends, too
There are all kinds of benefits for having strong groups of friends, and guess what — women are generally better at close friendships than men. Sorry, guys. For at least the last couple of decades, ...
“And that's what women leaders are famous for, accessing the tend-and-befriend response even if we don't know that's what we're doing. The real work is for women to dignify that in ...
“For females, the way to ensure inclusion of social groups has been (and some would argue still is) via social means, known as ‘tend-and-befriend’, whereas for men status is maintained ...
Tend, a non-profit organization in Brookings focuses on educating and supporting families of young children in the community.
I realize, too, that I don't need to know. I need only tend and befriend what is current, intuit the next best steps, and when those are taken, move on to whatever's next in line. Which brings me ...
It’s natural to experience unhelpful patterns or symptoms when we've experienced trauma and adverse childhood experiences. We feel off balance, chronically stressed, anxious, or depressed.